I’ve been in Korea for about
2 and a half weeks now and just want to talk about what the adjustment has been
like. For the most part I have not been too overwhelmed with culture shock and I
think it’s because I read about Korea beforehand and was not expecting it to be
just like back home. I’ve just been noticing the oddities and taking it all in.
Things I’ve Been Adjusting To:
Taking your shoes off when you see that the floor steps up
at the entrance of somewhere – a school, restaurant, hotel, whatever.
-Being one of the only non-Asian people in a crowd. There is
no racial diversity here and I stick out like a sore thumb. I get a lot of
curious looks. And kids sometimes say Hello. People know to speak English to me.
-Being able to say whatever without anyone overhearing. Yes,
many Koreans know English but they cannot keep up quick fluent English spoken
among native English speakers. We can have conversations in private…with tons
of people around.
-And on the reverse side, not having a clue what people are
saying the vast majority of the time. No overhearing conversations. Not knowing
what signs and labels say beyond the pictures is becoming normal.
Luckily, in the E-mart (giant grocery, etc store), some things are labeled in
English.
-Gesturing, simplifying my English, using a few limited
Korean words to get my point across.
Sometimes I am reduced to saying a few words very slowly with various
hand movements and hoping people understand.
-That being said, it’s kind of amazing being able to talk to
someone in limited English, Korean, gestures, smiles and laughing. It’s kind of
beautiful that people from two vastly different cultures that are able to have a
conversation like this. That's corny but whatever.
- NOT TIPPING! In South Korea you never tip for anything. You pay the exact amount it says. I could really get used to this.
-Umbrellas. Everywhere. In all kinds of weather. In the heat
they are used as parasols. I might have to take this up myself if this heat
continues. Also, in every shopping district you can buy umbrellas and slippers
in seemingly every store.
-Everyone here looks so well dressed and put together including
the men. (I’ve heard even men wear make up here). Not everyone, but most people
dress very well.
-Getting used to the area where I live and work! The walk is
familiar now, but on one of my first days, I managed to get lost on the walk
from the subway station to work. I find it pretty funny now, but when I first
arrived, everything was so overwhelming and strange. Korean streets can be a
barrage of signs from businesses all stacked up on top of each other. It can be
very confusing and disorienting.
-Seeing many American restaurants mixed in with Korean ones.
I see just as many Starbucks and Duncan Donuts here as I did back home, and
even more Baskin Robins. There’s McDonald’s, Burger King, even a Taco Bell
opened up nearby. I can have Western food whenever I feel like it. I've even had pizza and it was very good. They have other international foods and chains here all
around. I’m hooked on Danish drinking yogurt.
-New flavors for snack food, such as melon flavored
everything and flavored milk. (I know you can get it flavored back home, but
not EVERYWHERE like here. There is BLUEBERRY flavored milk and it is delicious).
Bobbing my head politely. When you meet someone, when you’re
leaving, to say thank you, to be polite without having to speak. I have only
been full out bowed to, as in, from the waist, 90-degree-angle, once, on a bus
on Jeju, when the bus driver was (as I understand) introducing himself and
asking us to buckle our seatbelts.
So, I'm sure I'm forgetting stuff, but those are some things that are sticking out right now. I just survived my first week of school. In a later post
I’ll talk about it. I am so behind in posts.